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The dimensions of love from a 17 years old perspective

   

To, the special one

“You know you’re in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” 

 Love. It is one of the most complicated and divine things globally, and the essence of it is spiritual love. Most people claim that they have experienced true love, even though they seldom know the real definition of it. 
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They use the concept of love to justify actions like stalking, obsessing, intimidating… But, this is not loving. This is a “kind of love” that is delusional and far removed from the real thing. 
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In my point of view: It is uplifting, inspiring, and unique!
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It’s when you love each other despite your quirks and flaws when you embrace each other’s imperfections instead of judging when you give each other some space for personal growth. 
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It’s when you respect each other despite differences when you help each other become the best version of yourself, and when you love each other unconditionally. 
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      "Love doesn’t know selfishness, lies, or deceit because it’s built on trust, mutual respect, and appreciation. It encompasses both your heart and mind. "
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You cannot chase it and you cannot fake it. It’s the powerful feeling deep inside you that motivates you to get up in the morning and embrace a new day, to smell that beautiful flower when you go for a walk, and to be grateful for everything you have.
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It’s the powerful force that motivates you to start noticing all those little things you were unaware of. And that’s the real beauty of spiritual, divine love. It’s when you feel in your gut that you’re with the right person because your life is no longer the same

It’s when you realize the beauty of minimalism, the ultimate warmth of one, a big hug, and the feeling of blissfulness while looking deeply into your loved one’s eyes. You realize that everything you need to be truly happy is right in front of you. You no longer spend half of your time daydreaming about the things you wish you had, but you practice gratitude for everything you already have.

There is no pretending and no faking. You appreciate each other for who you really are because you are in love with each other’s quirks and flaws, and not perfection. You embrace each other’s imperfections because you’re aware of your true nature. You know that you’re flawed human beings and you understand that that’s what makes you truly special. you might have made some mistakes in the past, made some bad decisions, but now you trust yourself more than ever.

You know that you’re on the right track because reality is finally better than your dreams. Before, you would contemplate your perfect partner having black hair, being a passionate artist, or being a hopeless romantic.

And now you see how mistaken you were because your special one doesn’t fit your definition of a perfect partner, but they make you perfectly happy.
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So, cherish the blessing sent by the divine  💕



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