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BEAUTIFULLY FLAWED

 

"Beautifully Flawed means no matter the flaw or the difference that you're still beautiful; that you're still beautiful and made in God's image.”

I used to feel like if I wasn’t maintaining 24/7 peace and joy then I was failing. I realize now that such expectations are a contradiction to the energy of acceptance and surrender. As a human being, I learn when I am doing and when I am doing it is natural, human, and necessary to make mistakes, hit roadblocks, meet conflict, and sometimes feel rotten. No one gets out alive without any of the above, that is life. The ups and downs of living are what make life beautiful. The goal is not 24/7 peace, the goal is to learn how to ride the ups and downs with grace and dignity, how to return to peace when the waves hit hard, and to lovingly accept and forgive ourselves and others as we all go about our learning.

This is the path we all have in common - Flawed humans, doing our best to learn how to be better. We all learn different. We all have different lessons and experiences to face and we won’t all face them with the same energy. Don’t judge yourself or others when they or you fall short of your own expectations and values. Just keep doing your best, it’s always enough 🙌🏻💖



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  1. UnknownAugust 27, 2021 at 1:07 AM

    Nice words! And yeah I can completely relate this blog to my personal life. I too feel rotten or low sometimes but slowly I have accepted that it's not about being perfect but it's all about how we go through that difficult phase and how we manage it. And I am getting better at it mentally and emotionally.Author of this blog is doing an amazing job by sharing this kind of nice stuff. Nice work! Keep it up!

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