LOVING CAN HURT SOMETIMES ?

Relationship dynamics are the patterns of behavior that happen between people in the ways we relate, interact and communicate with each other.

 One of the most common (and most frustrating) relationship dynamics we hear about is couples who regularly feel emotionally wounded by each other. 

They both love each other and want to stay together. Yet, they keep hurting each other through verbal abuse, physical rejection, taking each other for granted, betraying emotional trust, or bringing up the most vulnerable topics from their partner’s past. 

This is such a common phenomenon that it became the focus of the famous song by Ed Sheeran  "loving can hurt, loving can hurt sometimes" with this bizarre last line: “but its the only thing I know .” Huh? That’s clearly not love.

When we say that I love someone, we tend to say a lot of things that don't make sense like darling I love you to the moon and back, u really can't love someone to the moon and back if taken logically but like I have heard when people fall in love there is no logic, there is not calculation, it's just a spark that lights our soul and heart and we feel totally attached to that person.

   

But then why do people that love someone so deeply end up hurting them,

firstly for so long, we have been taught that loved ones cannot hurt you, they love you and they will always care and love you but they are humans just like us they have their own ups and downs, 

And yes loving can hurt sometimes. 

 

So before you fall in love again ask your partner if they are willing to see the blue days with you when there is no light 

 and if they say YES. then make sure you hold them tight and stick around on the hardest days and walk along the road of happiness together.  

 

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